
About
Navigating your way home to knowing THYSELF
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A space for self-awareness.
For noticing patterns.
For those who feel the desire to live an awakened life—without rejecting their humanity.
This is not about transcending the ego.
It is about learning how to walk with it consciously.
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The Threshold
Are you living on autopilot—
or are you ready to live awake?
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There comes a moment when you begin to notice.
The same reactions.
The same emotional loops.
The same stories repeating themselves.
Much of what we call “being stuck” is simply unconsciousness at work—
the ego doing what it learned to do in order to protect, defend, and survive.
Paradise Mentor exists for that moment of noticing.
The moment awareness begins.
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The First Question
Do you recognize patterns repeating in your life?
In relationships
In emotional reactions
In self-talk
In the choices you make
These patterns are not failures.
They are invitations to awareness.
Awakening does not begin by getting rid of the ego.
It begins by observing it without judgment.
Self-awareness is the doorway.
Knowing thyself is learning how to navigate—with the ego as part of the journey.
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The Invitation
Paradise Mentor is not about fixing yourself
or silencing the ego.
It is about learning how to partner with it.
When awareness is brought to your thoughts, emotions, language, and reactions, the ego no longer leads unconsciously. It becomes a messenger instead of a master.
You begin to:
Respond instead of react
Choose with awareness rather than unconscious habit
Witness your inner world with compassion
Awakening is not leaving your ego behind.
It is including it with awareness.
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The Work
This work supports you in:
Developing deep self-awareness
Recognizing unconscious ego patterns without shame
Understanding the ego as a necessary part of being human
Forming a conscious partnership with your inner protector
Taking responsibility for your inner experience
Living an awakened life while fully human
Awareness does not remove unconsciousness by force—
it gently brings light to it.
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The Mentor
My name is Lorraine Paradise White.
I serve as a mentor and mirror—walking beside you as you learn to read your own inner compass.
Through deep, unconditional listening, I often hear what is not being said. This creates a space where the ego can soften and awareness can arise naturally—without judgment, pressure, or fixing.
From this place, I ask clear, honest, and sometimes bold questions—not to challenge the ego, but to gently move beyond its defenses and activate a deeper level of knowing.
These questions are not meant to provoke reaction.
They are meant to awaken Being.
My role is not to tell you who you are.
It is to help you recognize when you are speaking from unconscious ego patterns—and when you are responding from awareness, presence, and truth.
Together, we form a conscious partnership with the ego, so it no longer leads unconsciously, but serves wisely.
I walk with you as you navigate your way home to knowing THYSELF—with compassion for both your humanness and your deeper Being.
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Ways We Can Work Together
1:1 Mentoring
A private, grounded space to explore your inner world, recognize unconscious patterns, and practice conscious choice.
The Journey to Knowing Thyself
Programs, tools, and workbooks designed to support awareness, integration, and embodiment—rooted in self-responsibility and compassion.
Conscious Communication
Learning how awareness and ego show up in language—and how shifting how you speak transforms how you live.
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Who This Work Is For
This space may resonate if you:
Desire to live an awakened, conscious life
Are tired of fighting yourself
Sense that the ego is not the problem—unconsciousness is
Want spiritual depth without bypassing your humanity
This is not about striving.
It is about remembering.
A Closing Reflection
Awakening begins with a simple willingness:
To see yourself clearly.
To include all parts of you.
To take responsibility without self-attack.
If this stirs something within you,
you are already navigating your way home to knowing THYSELF.
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Freedom
We have all come here to shine our bright, brilliant light to serve ourselves and others.

Transformation
When we become Open and Willing to shift our perspectives, and we trust we are part of something much larger than ourselves.
This is when we invite our lives to Transform!
My experience of Lorraine is one worth sharing! As a coach myself, I know the importance of a strong support team and I am honored she is part of mine. She is an exceptional coach who has truly made a positive impact on my life. Lorraine possesses a unique combination of two essential qualities: the ability to actively listen and the ability to empower.
From our very first encounter, I was struck by how deeply I felt heard and understood. I immediately felt comfortable opening up to her. She asked thoughtful questions and gave me the space to explore my thoughts and feelings. I never felt rushed or judged during our conversations, and that created a safe space for me to share from the deepest parts of me.
What I feel really sets Lorraine apart is her ability to empower. She encourages me to take ownership of my thoughts, actions, and beliefs and reminds me I am the author of the stories I am writing in my life. I truly feel she is a lighthouse for those of us who may have temporarily lost sight of our compass. She consistently believes in me and my ability to find my balance again, even in moments I'm doubting myself.
Throughout our time together Lorraine consistently challenged me to push past my comfort zone and grow in ways I never thought possible. She has always been ready to offer guidance and support whenever I needed it, and celebrate my successes with me along the way.
I feel truly heard, seen, supported, loved and empowered as a result of my time with Lorraine, not only in our sessions, but carried out into my LIFE . . . . I cannot recommend her highly enough to anyone who is looking for someone to be a part of their supoort team. She is truly one of a kind!

~Chasity Clark
Personal Awareness & Empowerment Coach


